Advocate Spotlight: Cecilia Grainger
April Advocate Interview
1. How long have you been an Advocate and when did you realize you wanted to become one?
I have been a CASA advocate for exactly one year. In college, I had a professor who was a CASA advocate and she would talk about CASA and the impact they have on children in the foster care system. I also heard different stories from Carrie Bond, a friend from church, who was a CASA advocate at the time. However, I was in nursing school and didn’t have enough time to adequately devote to the children in a case. So, when I moved back to San Antonio after I graduated, I started looking into it. At the beginning of 2019, I was set on becoming an advocate. The more I looked into CASA, the more I desired to volunteer and have an impact in the lives of these sweet children, so I decided that it was time! I took classes in April and became an advocate. It has been such a great year! I just finished my first case and I am looking forward to taking on more.
2. What is the most rewarding aspect of being an Advocate?
To me, the most rewarding aspect of being an advocate is knowing that you are making a difference in the lives of children who have been a part of unfortunate circumstances. When my two children from my first case saw me for our visits, they would get so excited, and they were only 1 and 2 years old. It was so fun to just play with them and get to love on them. You know you are doing a good job at being an advocate when one of your kiddos tells you “I love you” and gives you a great big hug at the end of each visit.
3. If you could offer words of encouragement to your fellow and incoming Advocates, what would they be?
My words of encouragement to my fellow advocates would be this: love your children and make them feel special. No matter their age, they will love you back. You may only be making a difference for one child in your case, but it can be a world of difference to that child. You may be the only thing standing between them and a threatening situation. Also, I was initially worried about taking on a case with younger children because I wondered how difficult it would be to communicate with them. However, on our first visit, we were already the best of buds. Don’t be discouraged by the age of the child or their current circumstances. Instead, get onto their level and there will be no barriers.
Cecilia is also a registered nurse, and we want to give her a very special thank you for being part of the team of health heroes who are diligently serving our community during this time.
In December 2024, CPS received a referral reporting that Demitri and Maria were living under a bridge along with their three children, Santiago, Mary, and Jose. The Department sought removal of the siblings due to numerous concerns including substance use by all members of the family unit, unsanitary living conditions, malnourishment, and other safety risks. It was later discovered that the children had a significant gap in their education and medical care, and that the two oldest children had juvenile justice involvement. The parents also had an extensive history with CPS. A few months after removal, CASA Advocates, Alejandro Trevino and Lauren Wise, were appointed to the case, quickly becoming a consistent and trusted presence in the lives of the Santiago (16), Mary (15), and Jose (13). During their first meeting, the siblings expressed a deep desire to stay together and eventually reunite with their parents, emphasizing that they had always been together as a family. Unfortunately, shortly after that initial encounter, Santiago and Mary were placed in a Residential Treatment Center (RTC) located hours away from Jose. Multiple placement changes followed, creating ongoing instability that further complicated their healing process. From the beginning, the CASA Advocates have worked tirelessly to ensure that the children’s services remain uninterrupted despite the frequent transitions. They continue to collaborate with CPS, the children’s attorney ad litem, and various placements to ensure the siblings’ voices are heard and their best interests prioritized. Alejandro and Lauren attend every staffing, court hearing, service plan meeting, and Collaborative Family Engagement (CFE) meeting while always advocating for stability, connection, and permanency. Understanding the critical importance of sibling relationships, the advocates made it their mission to preserve the children’s bond. They arranged for regular sibling contact, both virtually and in-person, overcoming logistical challenges caused by distance and restrictive placement protocols. At one point, Alejandro and Lauren personally facilitated a sibling visit, traveling a total of 638 miles to ensure the children could spend the time together. It was a powerful act of care, giving the siblings a moment of normalcy and joy in an otherwise turbulent time. For nearly the entirety of the case, the children have been separated from one another and far from their hometown. In the face of prolonged separation, instability, and emotional distress, Alejandro and Lauren’s efforts have played a key role in preserving the siblings’ emotional connection and sense of family. Because of their unwavering commitment, the siblings are now living in the same city again and are showing improvement in their academics and health. While the future remains uncertain and family reunification is still unclear, the advocates continue to hold hope that the siblings can at least be reunited with one another and return to San Antonio. This story is a powerful reminder that even in the face of tremendous challenges, the love between siblings and the dedication of caring advocates can foster hope, healing, and the promise of a brighter future.
Deborah Hom
