Advocate Spotlight: Janice and Jeffrey Ivey

We became advocates in May 2019 after completing our training. We had been looking for an opportunity to serve our community, now that our kids are grown. We can’t think of anything more important than working towards being a positive influence in the lives of children who have been in terrible situations. After getting information on CASA and attending the first training class, we knew we had found the right organization.

It’s seeing the difference that your efforts can make in the lives of the children you’re working with. Working with CPS, their schools, and the foster parents on plans and strategies so they can learn and prosper is extremely rewarding. And identifying opportunities for them-learning about their prior family experiences prior to CPS custody and turning previously negative experiences into positive ones. The progress that the children are making in school, for example, is definitely rewarding, and learning about things they want to do. When a child opens up to you, you know you’ve gained their trust and few things are as satisfying as that.

Develop a strong, positive relationship with your CPS caseworker. Realize that your CPS caseworker has multiple cases and doesn’t have a CASA on all of them, so any way you can help them out goes a long way. We would not have made the same progress without our caseworker’s assistance and guidance. Verify, verify, verify-verify everything you are told, by both the children and the parents. We’ve discovered huge inconsistencies between things the biological parents have reported and what the children themselves saw or experienced. And realize that little things that you might not think are important can be critically important to the development of the child. Never assume anything-one of our kids told us that she hadn’t gone to see Santa Claus before Christmas because “it costs money to do that”. Always look for successes to celebrate-whether it’s a grade at school, learning to read, riding a bike-remember that in many cases, children put into CPS care have never had that before. But most importantly, be present-parental visits, school events, etc.- and be there for your kids-the more they see you, the more comfortable they will be and the more confident they will become.