Story of Hope: Joan Ulsher
February Advocate Impact Story
Written By: Joan's Advocate Supervisor
On November 29, 2018, Joan signed on to a case involving four teenagers ranging in ages of 17, 16, 14, and 13. The 16 year old also had a young toddler. The children were removed from their home due to drug use and sexual abuse. The oldest child, Alex, had assaulted his youngest sister Sarah, and when it was clear that the mother, who was also a very heavy meth user, and close relatives were not protective of Sarah,
the children were removed. They had not been enrolled in school and were living in what can only be described as a temporary shed. The children had also had limited contact with their father.
During the time she has been on this case, she has worked over 1,075 hours and has driven over 10,000 miles. Joan dedicated herself to making a big impact on these kids. All the children had been in and out of multiple schools as well as having complete gaps where they were not enrolled in school. Joan took it upon herself to contact 32 schools and 10 different school districts. All had repeated at least 2 grades, sometimes more. Each child had been absent at least 645 times in the history of their school career. She began to create educational portfolios for all the children so that their educational needs could be met. Since the children have been in care, she has made herself a regular visitor at their schools, even those in different parts of Texas, and checks in on them at least weekly. The children’s teachers and administrators know her by name and know they can come to her for support or ideas to help the children. She has advocated for ARD’s, tutoring, Grade Placement evaluations, credit recovery courses, and Starr Intervention classes. Joan also has taken two of the teenagers on college tours and helped them meet the qualifications so they could receive laptops.
"Joan took it upon herself to contact 32 schools and 10 different school districts... she has made herself a regular visitor at their schools, even those in different parts of Texas, and checks in on them at least weekly."
Unfortunately,
Alex aged out of care and did not graduate high school.
Abigail (16 year old) resides in a home designed for teenage mothers to be able to parent their children while receiving parenting classes, and therapy. She is attending school and currently on the path of aging out. Joan is beginning to collect all information on independent living placements to ensure
Abigail knows all of her options.
James, the 14 year old, is doing well. He is involved in basketball at this placement and is thriving. He wants to attend college and is currently maintaining a relationship with a friend’s mom who could possibly be placement for him in the future.
Sarah is thriving in a structured environment and will soon be placed with her paternal grandparents. Mom has not worked any services and it is very unlikely the children will ever be able to return to her. The department and Joan have spent countless hours searching through the file, speaking with the parents, and children to find family connections. Since Joan cultivated her relationship with the father, she was able to get the paternal grandparents' names, which should end in permanency for one, and possibly more of the children.
Joan has spent countless hours building a bond with each child. They slowly opened up to her and spoke very fondly of their siblings. She began to see how important their connection was. Joan started to coordinate with four different placements so that the children could meet at least once a month to maintain that sibling bond. She would drive from one side of the state to the other so they could visit, even if it was just for a day. Joan cultivated their bond and supported it. She ensured after every move that the contact information and phone lists were updated and provided so the children were never without the support of each other.
"She would drive from one side of the state to the other so they could visit, even if it was just for a day."
Joan is dedicated to helping the children make positive connections with teachers, therapists, caseworkers, and peers. She has strived for normalcy by advocating for these children to participate in age appropriate events. Joan has been a constant presence of support and has been there when the children have moved and checked in with them daily to see how they were adjusting during 6 different placement changes.
She fiercely advocates for the children’s best interest in school, placement, and court. She has earned the respect from the caseworker and ad litem, even if they do not always agree. The caseworker and attorney have both expressed to CASA staff how lucky the children are to have this advocate and how she is willing to do anything to help.
Help us provide more Advocates like Joan who are willing to go above and beyond to provide a voice for children in foster care.
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In November 2025, Child Protective Services received a referral involving two sisters, ages 13 and 14, who were found caring for themselves. Following the death of their father, the girls experienced ongoing abuse and neglect. They were living in unsafe and unsanitary conditions, frequently left alone without adequate food, functioning plumbing, or consistent supervision, and were exposed to strangers regularly coming in and out of the home. Shortly after removal, Tameka Woolfolk was appointed as the Advocate on the case. From the very beginning, Tameka became one of the few consistent and reliable adults in the girls’ lives. The children experienced and continue to endure placement changes. These frequent transitions created ongoing instability and further complicated the girls’ ability to heal and adjust. Throughout each move, Tameka remained steadily involved, working diligently to ensure that the children’s services and support continued without interruption. She supports the girls not only emotionally, but physically as well helping pack their belongings at each move, accompanying them during school tours, and remaining readily available whenever they need support. Neither child was initially aware that they had the right to speak directly with the judge. Tameka recognized the importance of their voices being heard and with the support of the Ad Litem, helped to facilitate their presence at court, requesting that the judge meet with the girls in a breakout room, so they could personally express their wishes, all with the department, CASA and the Ad Litem by their side. In addition, this case was referred to Collaborative Family Engagement (CFE). During CASA’s ongoing exploration for family connections alongside the Department, Tameka discovered the children’s father’s obituary. Through this discovery, it was learned that the girls’ father had served in the United States Army as a combat medic during the Vietnam War and later worked for 30 years in civil service. Tameka took the initiative to request documentation, including VA records and a death certificate, to determine whether the children might be eligible for survivor benefits. The obituary also revealed that the girls are two of fourteen siblings. While many of the siblings were unable to provide support, CASA and the Department were able to establish contact with one brother. Through Tameka’s strong collaborative relationship with the Department and the Attorney Ad Litem, a thoughtful and appropriate plan was developed to allow the girls to begin visits with their brother, his wife, and their cousins. Although this story is still unfolding, both girls know one unwavering belief, that no matter what comes next, they know that Miss Tameka will continue to stand beside them every step of the way.
Lauren Lynes-Martinez
