Advocate Spotlight: Joan Ulsher
December Advocate Interview
1. How long have you been an Advocate and when did you realize you wanted to become one?
I have been a volunteer advocate for one year as of November. I realized I wanted to be an advocate after my husband signed up a couple months before me. I have also been mentoring a young man who aged out of foster care for 9 years now and realized this was the next logical step towards serving children in need. As a foster care alumni myself, I knew that all children need someone to speak up for them. I’m grateful God opened my eyes and heart and revealed that becoming a child advocate was my chosen path and purpose.
2. What is the most rewarding aspect of being an Advocate?
The most rewarding aspect of being an advocate is knowing I am making a positive difference in the kids lives and getting their affirmation for those efforts! Teens can be particular, but I feel like my teens have come a long way in trusting me and that is a powerful responsibility.
3. If you could offer words of encouragement to your fellow and incoming Advocates, what would they be?
New advocates should not be shy. Be sure to question decisions that your training and “gut” are telling you to address. You are the voice for the children you represent and they are counting on you to challenge CPS, the attorneys or even the ADA when there is a specific need that should be addressed. Of course, always keep in contact with your advocate supervisor. Expect that they will want you to be candid with them too. Be sure to come to every discussion, service plan, meeting, or court hearing fully prepared. Know your case backwards and forwards and do additional research on specific needs like special education, developmental milestones, mental health challenges, and trauma based care among others. There’s no limit- it’s all what makes sense to your specific case.
In April 2023, Child Protective Services received a referral reporting that two sisters, ages 15 and 16, were being held at the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center following a family altercation. Mother informed the department that she did not have a place for the girls to be released, and they were subsequently placed in an emergency shelter. Mother was asked if she would attend the court hearing and stated that she would not. Although both sisters were released to Mother from the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center, Mother refused to pick them up. There were no relatives or family friends willing to provide placement for the girls, and Mother stated that she wanted to voluntarily sign over her parental rights. Stephanie was assigned as the CASA Staff Advocate in May 2025. By this time, both sisters had experienced multiple placements. The older sister was 18 years old, enrolled in College Docket, and preparing to graduate from high school. The younger sister was 17 years old and residing at the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center. Although the sisters were on different paths, they remained emotionally connected and struggled with maintaining contact due to their circumstances. CASA attended the older sister’s high school graduation and the graduation celebration that followed. CASA assisted her with completing all required paperwork and testing necessary for college enrollment. Additionally, CASA supported her in moving into her first apartment, helping her get settled and navigate the challenges of early adulthood. While the younger sister was residing at the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center, CASA met with her shortly after assignment and introduced herself. The younger sister was later transferred to the Texas Juvenile Justice Department (TJJD). CASA continued to maintain contact despite challenges related to TJJD policies and procedures. CASA established a positive and consistent point of contact, worked to understand TJJD visitation processes, gathered relevant information, maintained communication with the youth, and actively worked to schedule sibling visitation. CASA has remained a consistent and reliable support system for the older sister as she transitions into adulthood. The youth frequently contacts CASA for guidance and assistance with everyday questions, and CASA continues to provide support. The older sister is currently passing all of her college courses, earning straight A’s, and is actively seeking employment. For the younger sister, CASA remains in close communication with TJJD case managers. CASA provides ongoing support through in-person visits every three months and monthly video calls. CASA is also gathering clothing, legal documentation, and preparing a comprehensive resource packet to support the younger sister upon her release. Through every challenge this case brings, Stephanie will stand beside these sisters, offering unwavering support and encouragement as they discover their strength and reach their full potential.
Joy Varner
