March Story of Hope: Dorothy & Sheila
Advocate Impact Story
In May of 2018 two young ladies, Dorothy (10) and Sheila (13), were brought into foster care due to neglect by their father. Their mother had sadly passed away and that affected the two girls and their father in ways no one could have imagined. Grief hit the family very hard and they soon found themselves homeless. The father was very overwhelmed and stressed but tried his best to make sure his girls were safe and fed. Unfortunately, he began drinking in excess to help cope with the loss of his wife. He eventually did reach out to CPS for help, as he felt his girls deserved a better life than the one he could provide at that moment.
During the initial interviews with the girls, they expressed to their new caseworker that they would cry themselves to sleep due to having anxiety about their current living situation. They were living in their truck and sometimes would go without food and showers. This led to Sheila being picked on in school because of her appearance and hygiene, which then led her to self-harming.
Dorothy and Sheila were soon placed with relatives and things seemed to be going well. The girls were in counseling, they had endless warm meals, a room to sleep in, and were surrounded by their loved ones; but the girls were still dealing with the loss of their mother and now being away from their father. Sheila started to exhibit some behavioral issues that the family was not equipped to deal with. She unfortunately had to be removed and was placed in a shelter, while CPS searched for more family members or a foster home. Not long after Sheila was moved, Dorothy was also removed from their family and placed in a foster home.
Meanwhile, their father did not successfully make the changes he needed to be reunified with his girls. He decided to sign over his rights in the best interest of his daughters.
They did have an advocate by their side during these changes, Linda Wilson. She was assigned to this case in September 2018. While placed with family, Linda would keep in contact monthly, sometimes weekly, to ensure the placement was a safe and stable one. She worked with the caseworker and Family Tapestry to make sure the best placements were being chosen for the girls. Although the girls have changed placements multiple times, had multiple caseworkers, and have been separated from each other, Linda has been consistently with them through it all. Linda does not miss a holiday or birthday. She would make sure they saw each other and had sibling visits as often as allowed. This experience for them would not have been the same without her.
It has been almost three years from the time they were brought into foster care. They have been separated from each other for years now, only seeing each other during visits and some overnight stays. Finally, CPS found one foster home that would love to adopt both girls. They have now been placed together with a foster family since early February 2021. Sheila and Dorothy are enjoying their new home and look forward to new beginnings.
Although, this chapter in their life has not yet come to an end, everyone involved is still working hard to make sure they have the best outcome possible. The girls can be sure that Linda, their CASA, will do everything in her power to make sure that they have a happy ending.
In December 2024, CPS received a referral reporting that Demitri and Maria were living under a bridge along with their three children, Santiago, Mary, and Jose. The Department sought removal of the siblings due to numerous concerns including substance use by all members of the family unit, unsanitary living conditions, malnourishment, and other safety risks. It was later discovered that the children had a significant gap in their education and medical care, and that the two oldest children had juvenile justice involvement. The parents also had an extensive history with CPS. A few months after removal, CASA Advocates, Alejandro Trevino and Lauren Wise, were appointed to the case, quickly becoming a consistent and trusted presence in the lives of the Santiago (16), Mary (15), and Jose (13). During their first meeting, the siblings expressed a deep desire to stay together and eventually reunite with their parents, emphasizing that they had always been together as a family. Unfortunately, shortly after that initial encounter, Santiago and Mary were placed in a Residential Treatment Center (RTC) located hours away from Jose. Multiple placement changes followed, creating ongoing instability that further complicated their healing process. From the beginning, the CASA Advocates have worked tirelessly to ensure that the children’s services remain uninterrupted despite the frequent transitions. They continue to collaborate with CPS, the children’s attorney ad litem, and various placements to ensure the siblings’ voices are heard and their best interests prioritized. Alejandro and Lauren attend every staffing, court hearing, service plan meeting, and Collaborative Family Engagement (CFE) meeting while always advocating for stability, connection, and permanency. Understanding the critical importance of sibling relationships, the advocates made it their mission to preserve the children’s bond. They arranged for regular sibling contact, both virtually and in-person, overcoming logistical challenges caused by distance and restrictive placement protocols. At one point, Alejandro and Lauren personally facilitated a sibling visit, traveling a total of 638 miles to ensure the children could spend the time together. It was a powerful act of care, giving the siblings a moment of normalcy and joy in an otherwise turbulent time. For nearly the entirety of the case, the children have been separated from one another and far from their hometown. In the face of prolonged separation, instability, and emotional distress, Alejandro and Lauren’s efforts have played a key role in preserving the siblings’ emotional connection and sense of family. Because of their unwavering commitment, the siblings are now living in the same city again and are showing improvement in their academics and health. While the future remains uncertain and family reunification is still unclear, the advocates continue to hold hope that the siblings can at least be reunited with one another and return to San Antonio. This story is a powerful reminder that even in the face of tremendous challenges, the love between siblings and the dedication of caring advocates can foster hope, healing, and the promise of a brighter future.
Deborah Hom
