Story of Hope: Valerie Vara


Advocate Valerie Vara became a beacon of stability for three siblings—Ariel, Anna, and Aaron—living with their maternal grandmother. Each child carried their own burdens, but with Valerie’s unwavering support, they began to find their voices and regain a sense of security and normalcy. Valerie not only provided guidance but also served as a constant presence in their lives, making a profound difference during a turbulent time.


One of Valerie's most significant contributions was advocating for the children to attend therapy. Recognizing their need to process their emotions and experiences, she ensured they received the professional help necessary to navigate their feelings. For Aaron, who was particularly struggling with his relationship with their father, Valerie became a trusted ally. When he voiced his hesitation about visiting, she listened attentively and respected his feelings, reassuring him that it was okay to set boundaries. This validation was invaluable for Aaron, who often felt unheard in his family dynamics.


The gratitude expressed by the children, especially Aaron, was a testament to the trust they placed in Valerie. He often told her how much he appreciated her willingness to listen and understand, allowing him to feel safe sharing his fears. As the therapy sessions progressed, the children began to flourish, revealing their bright personalities and newfound confidence. The three siblings thrived and started doing much better academically. Anna was diagnosed with ADHD and was prescribed meditation, which helped her tremendously in school.


At trial, the parents maintained their possessory rights and maternal grandmother was given primary conservatorship. Valerie advocated for the parents to provide child support to the grandmother and it was granted. Valerie’s commitment to the children have been nothing short of inspiring. By advocating for their needs and providing emotional support, she has helped them build resilience and hope for the future.


The bond they share is a reminder of the incredible impact one person can have on the lives of others. 

By bfines January 21, 2026
In November 2025, Child Protective Services received a referral involving two sisters, ages 13 and 14, who were found caring for themselves. Following the death of their father, the girls experienced ongoing abuse and neglect. They were living in unsafe and unsanitary conditions, frequently left alone without adequate food, functioning plumbing, or consistent supervision, and were exposed to strangers regularly coming in and out of the home. Shortly after removal, Tameka Woolfolk was appointed as the Advocate on the case. From the very beginning, Tameka became one of the few consistent and reliable adults in the girls’ lives. The children experienced and continue to endure placement changes. These frequent transitions created ongoing instability and further complicated the girls’ ability to heal and adjust. Throughout each move, Tameka remained steadily involved, working diligently to ensure that the children’s services and support continued without interruption. She supports the girls not only emotionally, but physically as well helping pack their belongings at each move, accompanying them during school tours, and remaining readily available whenever they need support. Neither child was initially aware that they had the right to speak directly with the judge. Tameka recognized the importance of their voices being heard and with the support of the Ad Litem, helped to facilitate their presence at court, requesting that the judge meet with the girls in a breakout room, so they could personally express their wishes, all with the department, CASA and the Ad Litem by their side. In addition, this case was referred to Collaborative Family Engagement (CFE). During CASA’s ongoing exploration for family connections alongside the Department, Tameka discovered the children’s father’s obituary. Through this discovery, it was learned that the girls’ father had served in the United States Army as a combat medic during the Vietnam War and later worked for 30 years in civil service. Tameka took the initiative to request documentation, including VA records and a death certificate, to determine whether the children might be eligible for survivor benefits. The obituary also revealed that the girls are two of fourteen siblings. While many of the siblings were unable to provide support, CASA and the Department were able to establish contact with one brother. Through Tameka’s strong collaborative relationship with the Department and the Attorney Ad Litem, a thoughtful and appropriate plan was developed to allow the girls to begin visits with their brother, his wife, and their cousins. Although this story is still unfolding, both girls know one unwavering belief, that no matter what comes next, they know that Miss Tameka will continue to stand beside them every step of the way.
By bfines January 21, 2026
Lauren Lynes-Martinez
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