Advocate Impact: Nancy
March CASA Advocate Spotlight
Written By: Nancy's Advocate Supervisor
Nancy has only been an Advocate since November 2018, but she has already made incredible impacts with her CASA kids. For her first CASA case, Nancy selected a PMC case with Harper (16) and Ella (15). Harper and Ella are in the permanent care of the state because of their mother’s substance abuse and their father’s sexual abuse of their 19-year-old half-sister. The girls are placed in separate residential treatment centers (RTC) because they don’t always get along well. Both girls are mothers and their babies live with them at their respective RTC. Harper has a 1-year-old son, Owen, and Ella has a 4-month-old daughter, Avery.
During the case opening, Nancy and her supervisor noted that the girls had a brother, Logan (14), but CPS was unsure who Logan’s caseworker was or where Logan had been placed. Eventually, the girls' attorney ad litem informed CASA that Logan has severe special needs and was in a placement in Houston that could accommodate those needs. Due to this, CASA was assigned just for Harper and Ella. Upon meeting Nancy, Harper and Ella told Nancy that they really missed their brother and wished they knew where he was and how he was doing. At a hearing in January, a co-worker of Logan’s caseworker finally gave CASA current information on Logan. He had been moved to a RTC in Flatonia, about 1-1/2 hours from San Antonio. Nancy eagerly agreed to advocate for Logan as well and Judge Montemayor was pleased to know that Nancy would advocate for Logan as well and that she would arrange a sibling visit. Less than one week later, Nancy brought both girls to see Logan; it had been 8 months since they had last seen each other.
Upon meeting Nancy, Harper and Ella told Nancy that they really missed their brother and wished they knew where he was and how he was doing... Less than one week later, Nancy brought both girls to see Logan; it had been 8 months since they had last seen each other.
Nancy has built such trusting relationships with the girls that they confide in her their hopes, wishes, and even the mistakes that they make. At Harper’s Circle of Support staffing last month, Nancy encouraged Harper to share her hopes for her future. Nancy knew that Harper and Ella both wanted to rebuild their relationships with their mother, but the girls had never told CPS about this goal. The girl’s mother came to the Circle of Support and with Nancy’s reassurance, Harper expressed that her dream is to eventually be able to live with her mother. Before our meeting ended, the caseworker approved their mother having supervised visits with both the girls and their mother agreed to work services. CPS and the mother are now working towards the goal of placing the girls with their mother. Harper expressed gratitude at having such an awesome Advocate in Nancy and even said that Nancy is like a grandmother to her.
In her short tenure as a CASA advocate, Nancy has made significant impacts in the lives of Harper, Ella, and Logan by facilitating sibling visits and helping the girls to advocate for themselves. Nancy is truly the voice for these children.
In December 2024, CPS received a referral reporting that Demitri and Maria were living under a bridge along with their three children, Santiago, Mary, and Jose. The Department sought removal of the siblings due to numerous concerns including substance use by all members of the family unit, unsanitary living conditions, malnourishment, and other safety risks. It was later discovered that the children had a significant gap in their education and medical care, and that the two oldest children had juvenile justice involvement. The parents also had an extensive history with CPS. A few months after removal, CASA Advocates, Alejandro Trevino and Lauren Wise, were appointed to the case, quickly becoming a consistent and trusted presence in the lives of the Santiago (16), Mary (15), and Jose (13). During their first meeting, the siblings expressed a deep desire to stay together and eventually reunite with their parents, emphasizing that they had always been together as a family. Unfortunately, shortly after that initial encounter, Santiago and Mary were placed in a Residential Treatment Center (RTC) located hours away from Jose. Multiple placement changes followed, creating ongoing instability that further complicated their healing process. From the beginning, the CASA Advocates have worked tirelessly to ensure that the children’s services remain uninterrupted despite the frequent transitions. They continue to collaborate with CPS, the children’s attorney ad litem, and various placements to ensure the siblings’ voices are heard and their best interests prioritized. Alejandro and Lauren attend every staffing, court hearing, service plan meeting, and Collaborative Family Engagement (CFE) meeting while always advocating for stability, connection, and permanency. Understanding the critical importance of sibling relationships, the advocates made it their mission to preserve the children’s bond. They arranged for regular sibling contact, both virtually and in-person, overcoming logistical challenges caused by distance and restrictive placement protocols. At one point, Alejandro and Lauren personally facilitated a sibling visit, traveling a total of 638 miles to ensure the children could spend the time together. It was a powerful act of care, giving the siblings a moment of normalcy and joy in an otherwise turbulent time. For nearly the entirety of the case, the children have been separated from one another and far from their hometown. In the face of prolonged separation, instability, and emotional distress, Alejandro and Lauren’s efforts have played a key role in preserving the siblings’ emotional connection and sense of family. Because of their unwavering commitment, the siblings are now living in the same city again and are showing improvement in their academics and health. While the future remains uncertain and family reunification is still unclear, the advocates continue to hold hope that the siblings can at least be reunited with one another and return to San Antonio. This story is a powerful reminder that even in the face of tremendous challenges, the love between siblings and the dedication of caring advocates can foster hope, healing, and the promise of a brighter future.
Deborah Hom
