Advocate Impact: Sandra Damrow
May Story of Hope
Written By: Courtney Turner, Sandra's Advocate Supervisor
The Department became involved with Zoe, Blue, Mia, and Jeremiah September 17, 2017 due to Physical Abuse and Neglectful Supervision. The children were living with their mother and her paramour who were in a domestic violence relationship at the time. When the children felt safe, they made outcries of physical abuse by their mother, sexual abuse by a past paramour of the mother and additional accounts of neglect became known. CASA was appointed to the case in October 2017 to all four children, during which time; the children were in two separate placements.
Ms. Sandra Damrow has been an advocate for four years and consistently goes above and beyond in her advocacy. She ensures the children’s educational needs; therapeutic needs and social needs are met. I am not sure how she does it, but she exceeds all expectations, to include but not limited to, maintaining contact with the childrens’ caregivers almost weekly, arranging sibling visits monthly, uploading school reports, etc. Her efforts show not only through her comprehensive documentation but also through the way the family, associated parties and the Department respond to her. When the eldest child was hospitalized and removed from her sisters and paternal grandparents, Ms. Sandra made the trip monthly to visit her so she would not feel alone. She realized the importance of being a constant in her life and standing by her in that difficult time.
I am not sure how she does it, but she exceeds all expectations, to include but not limited to, maintaining contact with the childrens’ caregivers almost weekly, arranging sibling visits monthly, uploading school reports, etc.
I have had the pleasure of being the lucky recipient, Advocate Supervisor, of Ms. Damrow and have seen the impacts she has made. In February 2019, this case went to Mediation in hopes of reaching an agreement or, at a minimum, narrowing the scope of issues to secure permanency for the children. No agreement was reached thus resulting in a three-day court trial.
I recall Ms. Sandra voicing her nervousness to me, but I assured her ‘you got this’ because I knew she was prepared and would be an asset to the case.
Had she not been a fearless advocate and made the efforts to contact all parents monthly she would not have had grounds to testify to certain things that she had personally observed or heard. Had she not seen her children consistently and spent quality time she could not assess the growth and change in all of them. I felt very proud to see her pull out dates, formulate objective responses and earn the respect of everyone in the room. This case was concluded in the favor of DFPS, the paternal relatives, biological father of Jeremiah, and CASA by The Honorable Judge Salinas.
Jeremiah has been placed approximately six months in a safe and loving home with his father. The children have sibling visits twice a month to include sleep overs at least one weekend a month. The girls have found permanency with their paternal grandparents and are doing well. They have a chance to finally become children and have ceased parentified roles. Their grades have improved, they participate in extracurricular activities and are becoming better day by day. Its moments as such that assure me of the hope that lies when a seed of love is planted.
In April 2023, Child Protective Services received a referral reporting that two sisters, ages 15 and 16, were being held at the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center following a family altercation. Mother informed the department that she did not have a place for the girls to be released, and they were subsequently placed in an emergency shelter. Mother was asked if she would attend the court hearing and stated that she would not. Although both sisters were released to Mother from the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center, Mother refused to pick them up. There were no relatives or family friends willing to provide placement for the girls, and Mother stated that she wanted to voluntarily sign over her parental rights. Stephanie was assigned as the CASA Staff Advocate in May 2025. By this time, both sisters had experienced multiple placements. The older sister was 18 years old, enrolled in College Docket, and preparing to graduate from high school. The younger sister was 17 years old and residing at the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center. Although the sisters were on different paths, they remained emotionally connected and struggled with maintaining contact due to their circumstances. CASA attended the older sister’s high school graduation and the graduation celebration that followed. CASA assisted her with completing all required paperwork and testing necessary for college enrollment. Additionally, CASA supported her in moving into her first apartment, helping her get settled and navigate the challenges of early adulthood. While the younger sister was residing at the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center, CASA met with her shortly after assignment and introduced herself. The younger sister was later transferred to the Texas Juvenile Justice Department (TJJD). CASA continued to maintain contact despite challenges related to TJJD policies and procedures. CASA established a positive and consistent point of contact, worked to understand TJJD visitation processes, gathered relevant information, maintained communication with the youth, and actively worked to schedule sibling visitation. CASA has remained a consistent and reliable support system for the older sister as she transitions into adulthood. The youth frequently contacts CASA for guidance and assistance with everyday questions, and CASA continues to provide support. The older sister is currently passing all of her college courses, earning straight A’s, and is actively seeking employment. For the younger sister, CASA remains in close communication with TJJD case managers. CASA provides ongoing support through in-person visits every three months and monthly video calls. CASA is also gathering clothing, legal documentation, and preparing a comprehensive resource packet to support the younger sister upon her release. Through every challenge this case brings, Stephanie will stand beside these sisters, offering unwavering support and encouragement as they discover their strength and reach their full potential.
Joy Varner
