Advocate Spotlight: James Barrett

I have been an advocate for going on three years now. I decided to join C.A.S.A. in August of 2016. I have been involved with you before volunteering with the Big Brother program while stationed with the Army in El Paso, Texas. However, because I myself was in the foster care system while growing up I knew that I wanted to serve foster kids and volunteer in other ways. I cannot recall the first time I hear of C.A.S.A. but it was probably in my first semester of training to become a social worker right before I retired from the Army. I mentioned it to my wife and she told me that her mom had actually done it before in El Paso, Texas. I figured no better time than now and how much better could I have become if I had a C.A.S.A. when I was going through the system.

The most rewarding aspect of being an advocate would be seeing the progress a young child makes. The progress could be simple to us but to them it is huge. I have had the opportunity to see children leave a treatment facility for the first time in two years to simply go bowling, young children go to great adoptive homes, and sibling groups get reunited. Sometimes a child may regress and then progress. To me this is the most rewarding part of being a C.A.S.A. is see how wonderfully children can bounce back from the negatives in our world with a caring adult that promises to stick by them.

The best advice I can give is to always be there for the children. Sometimes what is best for the children is not what they want to hear. If they know you are there for them, they will take to you. Sometimes depending on age and circumstances this may take some time. Be willing to put in the time and effort it takes to “win over” the child. Remember who this child is, what they like, who they like, and what they want to be when they grow up. Little things like a child’s favorite color and favorite super hero will go a long way to helping securing a child’s trust.