May Advocate Spotlight
Monique Thibodeaux
1. How long have you been an Advocate and when did you realize you wanted to become one?
I’ve been an advocate since June 2019. I had moved to San Antonio the previous year and was looking for ways to volunteer and get involved in the community. I was interested in working one on one with kids and was hoping to learn something new in the process. I didn't know anything about CASA until I started seeing the banners around town but that got me to attend one of the info sessions. It’s been a wonderful experience getting to know my two CASA kids and I’ve learned so much about child advocacy and the foster care system as well.
2. What is the most rewarding aspect of being an Advocate?
The most rewarding aspect for me was the times I was being able to be there for my kids when their needs would have gone unmet without a CASA. This happened recently during the holidays when one of my kids, a young teen, was in crisis but couldn’t reach her caseworker or family members. She called me daily during that time and I could tell that having my support made that period a little easier for her.
3. If you could offer some words of encouragement to your fellow and incoming Advocates, what would they be?
There is a lot to learn but the professionals I’ve interacted with have been very understanding of the CASA’s role and very helpful. Ask lots of questions. Your CASA supervisor will be there with you every step of the way to support you.
Also, be patient with the court case. I’ve been on the same case since being sworn in 18 months ago and it has had lots of ups and downs. There were times when I was concerned about the direction things appeared to be heading. Focus on advocating for the children’s needs and being available for them. Just being there through a difficult period of their lives will mean a lot.
In April 2023, Child Protective Services received a referral reporting that two sisters, ages 15 and 16, were being held at the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center following a family altercation. Mother informed the department that she did not have a place for the girls to be released, and they were subsequently placed in an emergency shelter. Mother was asked if she would attend the court hearing and stated that she would not. Although both sisters were released to Mother from the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center, Mother refused to pick them up. There were no relatives or family friends willing to provide placement for the girls, and Mother stated that she wanted to voluntarily sign over her parental rights. Stephanie was assigned as the CASA Staff Advocate in May 2025. By this time, both sisters had experienced multiple placements. The older sister was 18 years old, enrolled in College Docket, and preparing to graduate from high school. The younger sister was 17 years old and residing at the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center. Although the sisters were on different paths, they remained emotionally connected and struggled with maintaining contact due to their circumstances. CASA attended the older sister’s high school graduation and the graduation celebration that followed. CASA assisted her with completing all required paperwork and testing necessary for college enrollment. Additionally, CASA supported her in moving into her first apartment, helping her get settled and navigate the challenges of early adulthood. While the younger sister was residing at the Bexar County Juvenile Detention Center, CASA met with her shortly after assignment and introduced herself. The younger sister was later transferred to the Texas Juvenile Justice Department (TJJD). CASA continued to maintain contact despite challenges related to TJJD policies and procedures. CASA established a positive and consistent point of contact, worked to understand TJJD visitation processes, gathered relevant information, maintained communication with the youth, and actively worked to schedule sibling visitation. CASA has remained a consistent and reliable support system for the older sister as she transitions into adulthood. The youth frequently contacts CASA for guidance and assistance with everyday questions, and CASA continues to provide support. The older sister is currently passing all of her college courses, earning straight A’s, and is actively seeking employment. For the younger sister, CASA remains in close communication with TJJD case managers. CASA provides ongoing support through in-person visits every three months and monthly video calls. CASA is also gathering clothing, legal documentation, and preparing a comprehensive resource packet to support the younger sister upon her release. Through every challenge this case brings, Stephanie will stand beside these sisters, offering unwavering support and encouragement as they discover their strength and reach their full potential.
Joy Varner
