May Advocate Spotlight

Monique Thibodeaux

1. How long have you been an Advocate and when did you realize you wanted to become one?
I’ve been an advocate since June 2019. I had moved to San Antonio the previous year and was looking for ways to volunteer and get involved in the community. I was interested in working one on one with kids and was hoping to learn something new in the process. I didn't know anything about CASA until I started seeing the banners around town but that got me to attend one of the info sessions. It’s been a wonderful experience getting to know my two CASA kids and I’ve learned so much about child advocacy and the foster care system as well. 

2. What is the most rewarding aspect of being an Advocate? 
The most rewarding aspect for me was the times I was being able to be there for my kids when their needs would have gone unmet without a CASA. This happened recently during the holidays when one of my kids, a young teen, was in crisis but couldn’t reach her caseworker or family members. She called me daily during that time and I could tell that having my support made that period a little easier for her.

3. If you could offer some words of encouragement to your fellow and incoming Advocates, what would they be?
There is a lot to learn but the professionals I’ve interacted with have been very understanding of the CASA’s role and very helpful. Ask lots of questions. Your CASA supervisor will be there with you every step of the way to support you.
Also, be patient with the court case. I’ve been on the same case since being sworn in 18 months ago and it has had lots of ups and downs. There were times when I was concerned about the direction things appeared to be heading. Focus on advocating for the children’s needs and being available for them. Just being there through a difficult period of their lives will mean a lot.
By bfines January 21, 2026
In November 2025, Child Protective Services received a referral involving two sisters, ages 13 and 14, who were found caring for themselves. Following the death of their father, the girls experienced ongoing abuse and neglect. They were living in unsafe and unsanitary conditions, frequently left alone without adequate food, functioning plumbing, or consistent supervision, and were exposed to strangers regularly coming in and out of the home. Shortly after removal, Tameka Woolfolk was appointed as the Advocate on the case. From the very beginning, Tameka became one of the few consistent and reliable adults in the girls’ lives. The children experienced and continue to endure placement changes. These frequent transitions created ongoing instability and further complicated the girls’ ability to heal and adjust. Throughout each move, Tameka remained steadily involved, working diligently to ensure that the children’s services and support continued without interruption. She supports the girls not only emotionally, but physically as well helping pack their belongings at each move, accompanying them during school tours, and remaining readily available whenever they need support. Neither child was initially aware that they had the right to speak directly with the judge. Tameka recognized the importance of their voices being heard and with the support of the Ad Litem, helped to facilitate their presence at court, requesting that the judge meet with the girls in a breakout room, so they could personally express their wishes, all with the department, CASA and the Ad Litem by their side. In addition, this case was referred to Collaborative Family Engagement (CFE). During CASA’s ongoing exploration for family connections alongside the Department, Tameka discovered the children’s father’s obituary. Through this discovery, it was learned that the girls’ father had served in the United States Army as a combat medic during the Vietnam War and later worked for 30 years in civil service. Tameka took the initiative to request documentation, including VA records and a death certificate, to determine whether the children might be eligible for survivor benefits. The obituary also revealed that the girls are two of fourteen siblings. While many of the siblings were unable to provide support, CASA and the Department were able to establish contact with one brother. Through Tameka’s strong collaborative relationship with the Department and the Attorney Ad Litem, a thoughtful and appropriate plan was developed to allow the girls to begin visits with their brother, his wife, and their cousins. Although this story is still unfolding, both girls know one unwavering belief, that no matter what comes next, they know that Miss Tameka will continue to stand beside them every step of the way.
By bfines January 21, 2026
Lauren Lynes-Martinez
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