Story of Hope: Emily Benedict

Emily has been an Advocate with CASA for about a year and a half. Upon graduating from her CASA training, she eagerly signed onto her first case. Emily knew from the beginning she wanted to help a teen girl who was in PMC status and needed educational help while achieving permanency. She read over the case of a 13 year old girl, Leah, whose parents’ rights had been terminated and was in a foster home. Leah had not obtained permanency and had been in care for over a year, as the foster parents wavered back and forth on their decision to adopt her.  Leah was also struggling in school and was behind a grade level or two in some of her academics.  Emily knew this was the child she wanted to be paired up with and amplify her voice in court. 


           Throughout the case, Emily has been a constant figure in Leah’s life. They go out to lunch or dinner, shop, and talk about school. Emily has advocated for Leah to obtain tutoring and follows up closely to ensure Leah’s educational goals are being met. Emily also communicated frequently with the foster parents, asking for their thoughts on adopting Leah, and their future goals. Emily maintains the caseworker, attorney, and CASA supervisor updated and informed of all issues pertaining to Leah. 


           A few months into the case, Emily began to notice Leah was no longer comfortable in her foster home. Leah confided in Emily her foster family was having doubts about adopting her and she felt she no longer belonged.  Leah desperately wanted to be on a volleyball team but missed the tryouts as her foster mother did not allow her to participate and wanted her to focus more on academics. However, her foster brothers were allowed to participate in sports. Furthermore, the foster family stopped inviting Leah on vacations and sought out respite care for her while they were gone. Emily remained in constant communication with Leah, reassuring her everything would be ok.


           Emily visited her in respite care and they continued their usual routine of lunch, shopping and talking to that Leah would know she had someone still looking out for her. Emily voiced her concerns about the foster family unsure about adopting Leah to the court. The Judge read the CASA report, asked the advocate questions and told the foster parents they needed to decide as Leah had been through so much and deserved permanency; either with them or another family.  Soon after the hearing, the family decided they would not be moving forward with adopting Leah and gave notice on her placement. Leah was devastated and felt very awkward being in the home knowing she was no longer going to be a part of the family. Emily spoke to the CPS caseworker and Leah’s attorney about increasing Leah’s therapy to address the situation, and the parties met to discuss the next steps and form a plan. Emily continued to visit with Leah and reassure her a new placement was being sought and she would make sure it was a safe environment where she could be herself and feel comfortable.


           About a month after giving notice, a new foster home was found for Leah. Emily visited the family, along with CPS, prior to Leah being placed to inform them of her educational status and goals, any behavioral issues, and her wish to be in volleyball and make new friends. Emily was also there with Leah during her transition into her new home and made sure Leah felt safe and comfortable.


           I am happy to report Leah is thriving. She just started another volleyball season after taking a break for the holidays. She really likes her coach and her teammates and was excited that they won their first game!  Emily takes her to practice at times and watches her play. Leah’s grades have also improved, so she is taking a break from tutoring and is excited to have her Saturday mornings back.  Her 15th birthday is coming up in March, and she is figuring out how to celebrate. And while she has normal disagreements with her foster sisters, she really enjoys being in the foster home. She respects her foster parents and she thinks they are kind. 

By bfines 11 Apr, 2024
In the heart of San Antonio, a story of resilience and hope unfolds, illustrating the profound impact of a CASA advocate on the lives of children navigating the complexities of the child protective services system. This story centers on two siblings, a brother (14) and a sister (16), living in circumstances no child should ever face. They endured years of neglect and physical abuse while under the care of their elderly grandparents and delinquent parents, their young lives clouded by despair, uncertainty, and unspeakable trauma—including their mother's death and father's incarceration when CPS assumed custody. Enter CASA, a beacon of hope and advocacy in a tumultuous time as they navigated life in unfamiliar home and school surroundings, countless rules and regulations, investigative personnel, doctors, psychiatrists, counselors, social workers, lawyers, and court appearances. A CASA volunteer was appointed to the siblings' case, marking the beginning of a transformative journey for the children and everyone involved in their path to healing and stability. The children's CASA advocate profoundly understood that trust is the cornerstone of recovery for children. As such, the advocate approached the siblings gently and consistently, offering them a sense of safety and predictability they had long been missing. Through regular visits, attentive listening, and the simple act of being there, she slowly but surely began rebuilding the trust their previous experiences had shattered. One of the advocate's primary goals was to ensure that the siblings were placed in a stable, nurturing home environment where they could thrive. The advocate worked tirelessly to advocate for their placement in a home that met their physical needs and provided a loving, supportive atmosphere. The advocate's strategic interventions and persistent advocacy in court were instrumental in their kinship placement with their uncle. He served as a lifeline and accepted the challenge of helping raise two teenagers when he had already raised three of his children. The home situation, however, was not without its share of difficulties. It was clear that the sister's prolonged childhood trauma proved to be a challenge. Upon her 18th birthday, she decided to leave the state's care and, subsequently, her uncle's home, determined to make it independently without support services. Within two and a half months, the sister requested extended care services from the state because she had no educational skills or means of support and had lost custody of her baby due to false reports made by the grandparents. She was lost and needed help. After a long and arduous journey to find housing for the sister, the CASA advocate rallied with the children's ad litem to secure a spot for her at Seton Home. She has since reunified with her two-year-old daughter, and both are thriving. School can be a sanctuary for children facing turmoil at home, offering structure, normalcy, and the opportunity for achievement. Unfortunately, the children's educational career was often interrupted or even derailed because of their involved trauma, which led to numerous absences, missed credits, and a general aversion to school. The CASA advocate collaborated closely with educators and school counselors to ensure the siblings received the needed academic and emotional support. This included individualized education plans to address learning gaps, counseling services to help them process their experiences, and extracurricular activities to foster their talents and interests. Through these efforts, the young man is thriving in a new school, and his sister is on her way to completing her GED. The dramatic change in their approach to schooling will ensure a future filled with possibilities. Perhaps the most profound role of the CASA advocate was that of an unwavering source of support—a shoulder to lean on during life's inevitable ups and downs. Whether celebrating academic achievements, offering encouragement through setbacks, or simply being a compassionate listener, the advocate was a constant presence in the siblings' lives, embodying the essence of hope and resilience. The journey of these siblings, the brother now 16 and the sister now 19, is a testament to the transformative power of strategic, compassionate advocacy. As they continue to heal and grow, their story serves as a beacon of hope for countless other children navigating childhood trauma. It underscores the critical importance of CASA volunteers and the indelible impact they can have on the lives of vulnerable children. In a world where despair can easily overshadow hope, these siblings' stories remind us of the incredible resilience of the human spirit and the power of dedicated individuals to ignite change. These children were given a chance at a better life and became a symbol of hope and perseverance for others in similar situations. As I share this story, please join me in celebrating the courage of these remarkable siblings and the CASA program's unwavering mission to ensure every child can thrive in a safe, loving, and supportive environment. This story is a call to action, a reminder of the difference one person can make in a child's life, and an invitation to become a part of this life-changing journey.  I am proud of my two CASA children—theirs is a story of hope. Sylvia R. Reyna, Ph.D.
By bfines 11 Apr, 2024
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