Uncertainty During a Global Pandemic
Advocate Impact Story
This month’s Story of Hope is a continuation of a story that was previously highlighted in October of 2019. When that story was featured, termination of parental rights had just been granted to the parents of Joshua and Shawn. Both boys were in separate foster to adopt homes; however, both sets of foster parents were dedicated to prioritizing the sibling bond between Shawn and Joshua.
Normally after termination of parental rights an adoption can happen fairly quickly. Unfortunately, in this case we still had a paternal grandmother that was requesting placement and custody of both boys. The grandma had filed a legal intervention so that put the adoptions on pause until the intervention was sorted out. Advocate Janet Penley was determined to see this case through to the adoption of both boys.
Janet continued to visit both boys monthly and follow up with teachers and therapists to ensure they received the care and services they needed. Joshua had an especially hard time during this period because he was very attached to his foster parents and did not understand why there was a delay in his adoption. It seemed that each time we went to court hoping that the adoption could move forward, we were always met with more delays or complications. It was finally ordered that Joshua’s adoption could be consummated since he was not related to the paternal grandmother.
Joshua was finally adopted in April 2020 during all of the quarantine craziness. Joshua’s family, friends, and attorney celebrated his adoption with a festive car parade to mark the occasion. Joshua was finally able to relax in his home with his new family. Once Joshua was adopted all of the focus turned to Shawn and what needed to happen in order for him to have the same happy ending as his brother.
Shawn was getting much needed behavioral therapy but he also needed speech and occupational therapy. Due to Covid-19 these services were only available via Zoom. Unfortunately, Shawn really needed in person services since he was younger and had a shorter attention span. Janet continued to support the foster parents and helped provide some resources and ideas on what they could work on at home until he could attend in-person services.
We had several more court hearings to check on the adoption status and finally a decision was made to set a trial date for all parties to be notified and to address the intervention complication once and for all. Janet diligently completed yet another court report recommending that Shawn stay in his current placement as he had now lived there most of his life and was very bonded to his foster family.
The zoom hearing started and it was announced that the grandmother had come to an agreement with the adoptive parents and that the adoption would be able to proceed that morning. Shawn’s foster care journey was now over almost 3 years to the day that the case was started.
Through it all Janet was the one constant that was there through it all. She was there the day that the kids were removed from their grandmother and every month after that. This was a most unusual case filled with uncertainty and delays due to legal complications and a global pandemic but in the end Shawn and Joshua are thriving and have the brightest of futures.
In December 2024, CPS received a referral reporting that Demitri and Maria were living under a bridge along with their three children, Santiago, Mary, and Jose. The Department sought removal of the siblings due to numerous concerns including substance use by all members of the family unit, unsanitary living conditions, malnourishment, and other safety risks. It was later discovered that the children had a significant gap in their education and medical care, and that the two oldest children had juvenile justice involvement. The parents also had an extensive history with CPS. A few months after removal, CASA Advocates, Alejandro Trevino and Lauren Wise, were appointed to the case, quickly becoming a consistent and trusted presence in the lives of the Santiago (16), Mary (15), and Jose (13). During their first meeting, the siblings expressed a deep desire to stay together and eventually reunite with their parents, emphasizing that they had always been together as a family. Unfortunately, shortly after that initial encounter, Santiago and Mary were placed in a Residential Treatment Center (RTC) located hours away from Jose. Multiple placement changes followed, creating ongoing instability that further complicated their healing process. From the beginning, the CASA Advocates have worked tirelessly to ensure that the children’s services remain uninterrupted despite the frequent transitions. They continue to collaborate with CPS, the children’s attorney ad litem, and various placements to ensure the siblings’ voices are heard and their best interests prioritized. Alejandro and Lauren attend every staffing, court hearing, service plan meeting, and Collaborative Family Engagement (CFE) meeting while always advocating for stability, connection, and permanency. Understanding the critical importance of sibling relationships, the advocates made it their mission to preserve the children’s bond. They arranged for regular sibling contact, both virtually and in-person, overcoming logistical challenges caused by distance and restrictive placement protocols. At one point, Alejandro and Lauren personally facilitated a sibling visit, traveling a total of 638 miles to ensure the children could spend the time together. It was a powerful act of care, giving the siblings a moment of normalcy and joy in an otherwise turbulent time. For nearly the entirety of the case, the children have been separated from one another and far from their hometown. In the face of prolonged separation, instability, and emotional distress, Alejandro and Lauren’s efforts have played a key role in preserving the siblings’ emotional connection and sense of family. Because of their unwavering commitment, the siblings are now living in the same city again and are showing improvement in their academics and health. While the future remains uncertain and family reunification is still unclear, the advocates continue to hold hope that the siblings can at least be reunited with one another and return to San Antonio. This story is a powerful reminder that even in the face of tremendous challenges, the love between siblings and the dedication of caring advocates can foster hope, healing, and the promise of a brighter future.
Deborah Hom
