Story of Hope: "I will be with you..."

"I will be with you as your friend along the way." These words were shared with Katrina by her advocate, Aaron Anderson, as she was preparing to move for the 3rd time since her CPS case started. Such simple words can make a world of difference in a youth's life. 

Katrina and her brother Kyle have been through a lot in their young lives. They were removed from a home that while we may think was never appropriate, it was home for them. Kyle is non-verbal which means Karina feels more alone most of the time as she cannot communicate and share their feelings with Kyle. Katrina has expressed feeling alone at times but feels comfort knowing that they are together in the same placement. 

Aaron was assigned to the case a few months ago and quickly made contact with the youth. He tried really hard to create rapport and build a relationship with the children though circumstances made it difficult. Aaron never backed down, making sure that anyone and everyone would listen to the attempts to build that relationship with the children. 

Aaron’s persistence paid off and he was able to visit with the children virtually. Katrina was hesitant to talk to Aaron but within time was able to open up. They talked about the upcoming placement change and she expressed being scared about moving yet again. Aaron reassured her that everything would be okay and stated "I'll be there as your friend along the way." Immediately the youth smiled and was observed taking a deep breath as if she was relieved and knew she was no longer alone- she now had a friend. 

 A lot of our children are expressing fear and mixed emotions as they are approaching the summer months. For some, it means that their routines are changing while others are nervous about attending summer camp. Some of our youth will even be moving placements now that the school year has ended. It is important that our advocates continue to ensure these children that they will be "with them as their friend along the way” just as Aaron has done for Katrina and Kyle.